Just the everyday thoughts and observations from a nebraska woman.
This is for the mothers who have sat up all night
>with sick toddlers in their arms, wiping up barf
>laced with Oscar Mayer wieners and cherry Kool-Aid
>saying, "It's okay honey, Mommy's here."
>
>Who have sat in rocking chairs for hours on end
>soothing crying babies who can't be comforted.
>
>This is for all the mothers who show up at work with
>spit-up in their hair and milk stains on their
>blouses and diapers in their purse.
>
>For all the mothers who run carpools and make
>cookies and sew Halloween costumes. And all the
>mothers who DON'T.
>
>This is for the mothers who gave birth to babies
>they'll never see. And the mothers who took those
>babies and gave them homes.
>
>This is for the mothers whose priceless art
>collections are hanging on their refrigerator doors.
>
>And for all the mothers who froze their buns on
>metal bleachers at football or soccer games instead
>of watching from the warmth of their cars, so that
>when their kids asked, "Did you see me, Mom?" they
>could say, "Of course, I wouldn't have missed it for
>the world," and mean it.
>
>This is for all the mothers who yell at their kids
>in the grocery store and swat them in despair when
>they stomp their feet and scream for ice cream
>before dinner. And for all the mothers who count to
>ten instead, but realize how child abuse happens.
>
>This is for all the mothers who sat down with their
>children and explained all about making babies. And
>for all the (grand)mothers who wanted to, but just
>couldn't find the words.
>
>This is for all the mothers who go hungry, so their
>children can eat. For all the mothers who read
>"Goodnight, Moon" twice a night for a year. And then
>read it again. "Just one more time ."
>
>This is for all the mothers who taught their
>children to tie their shoelaces before they started
>school. And for all the mothers who opted for Velcro
>instead.
>
>This is for all the mothers who teach their sons to
>cook and their daughters to sink a jump shot.
>
>This is for every mother whose head turns
>automatically when a little voice calls "Mom?" in a
>crowd, even though they know their own offspring are
>at home -- or even away at college.
>
>This is for all the mothers who sent their kids to
>school with stomach aches assuring them they'd be
>just FINE once they got there, only to get calls
>from the school nurse an hour later asking them to
>please pick them up. Right away.
>
>This is for mothers whose children have gone astray,
>who can't find the words to reach them.
>
>This is for all the step-mothers who raised another
>woman's child or children, and gave their time,
>attention, and love... sometimes to tally unappreciated!
>
>For all the mothers who bite their lips until they
>bleed when their 14 year olds dye their hair green.
>
>For all the mothers of the victims of recent school
>shootings, and the mothers of those who did the
>shooting.
>
>For the mothers of the survivors, and the mothers
>who sat in front of their TVs in horror, hugging
>their child who just came home from school, safely.
>
>This is for all the mothers who taught their
>children to be peaceful, and now pray they come home
>safely from a war.
>What makes a good Mother anyway?
>
>Is it patience?
>
>Compassion?
>
>Broad hips?
>
>The ability to nurse a baby, cook dinner, and sew a
>button on a shirt, all at the same time?
>
>Or is it in her heart?
>
>Is it the ache you feel when you watch your son or
>daughter disappear down the street, walking to
>school alone for the very first time?
>
>The jolt that takes you from sleep to dread, from
>bed to crib at 2 A.M. to put your hand on the back
>of a sleeping baby?
>
>The panic, years later, that comes again at 2 A.M.
>when you just want to hear their key in the door and
>know they are safe again in your home?
>
>Or the need to flee from wherever you are and hug
>your child when you hear news of a fire, a car
>accident, a child dying?
>
>The emotions of motherhood are universal and so our
>thoughts are for young mothers stumbling through
>diaper changes and sleep deprivation...
>
>And mature mothers learning to let go.
>
>For working mothers and stay-at-home mothers.
>
>Single mothers and married mothers.
>
>Mothers with money, mothers without. This is for
>you all. For all of us. Hang in there. In the end we
>can only do the best we can. Tell them every day
>that we love them. And pray.
>
>Please pass along to all the Moms in your life.
>
>"Home is what catches you when you fall - and we all fall."

Comments
on May 07, 2005
Very nice. And I'd like to add:

For all the mothers who take in and care for their idiot children when they get themselves banged up in car wrecks and such.
on May 08, 2005
Good addition, MasonM
on May 08, 2005
Despite having read this at least once before somewhere else, this still brings tears to my eyes. A beautiful post.
on May 09, 2005
Ahh thanks TW. Hope you had a great mother's day!
on May 09, 2005
Thanks Nebraska, great post and for the great greetings!
on May 15, 2005
You are most welcome Foreverserenity.